Practical Support and Resources

 

Practical support for real life (and real moments)

 

Whether you’re planning ahead, supporting someone you love, or just trying to understand what happens next - these resources are here to make things clearer, calmer, and more manageable.


No jargon. No judgement. Just help.

 


 

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✅ The “Planning Ahead” Checklist

 

A simple checklist to help you organise your wishes, paperwork, and key information - without getting overwhelmed.


Best for: planning ahead, peace of mind

Format: PDF download

Download Simple Checklist


 

✅ Understanding Funeral Costs (UK)

 

A straightforward breakdown of what funerals can cost, what affects price, and where you can save money without sacrificing dignity.


Best for: budget planning, avoiding surprises

Format: Guide

Read the Guide - coming soon!

 


 

✅ Eco-Friendly Goodbyes - What Actually Makes a Difference

 

Cut through the greenwashing and learn the genuine options that reduce environmental impact, including CO₂-conscious choices.


Best for: greener planning, meaningful choices

Format: Guide

Read the Guide - coming soon!

 


 

Planning Ahead

 

Write down your wishes (without the stress)

A simple way to start, even if you’re avoiding the topic.

What to include in an “in case of emergency” folder

The essentials your loved ones would need quickly.

How to talk to family about death

Scripts, prompts, and gentle ways in.

 

 Planning ahead resources - coming soon!

 


 

Support and Grief

 

What to do when someone dies (first steps)

A calm checklist for the first 24-72 hours.

Grief basics - what’s normal and what helps

No timelines. No judgement.

Supporting someone who is grieving

What to say, what not to say, and how to show up.

Grief support resources and helpful links - coming soon!

 


Funeral Costs and Affordable Options

 

Affordable funerals - what “low-cost” really means

Options that still feel respectful.

Help paying for a funeral (Scotland support overview)

A summary of possible routes and where to start.

Questions to ask funeral providers

A list you can take with you.

 

Cost support resources  - coming soon!

 


 

Eco and Low-Impact Choices

 

Burial vs cremation - environmental impact basics

The simplest comparison without the guilt.

Small swaps that reduce CO₂

Realistic changes that add up.

How to avoid being upsold “green” extras

What’s meaningful vs what’s marketing.

 

Eco resources - coming soon!

 


 

Other Downloads

 

💛 Peace Out Resource Pack

 

A downloadable bundle of our most useful templates and checklists in one place.

Includes:

  • Planning ahead checklist
  • Questions to ask checklist
  • Personal wishes template
  • Practical next steps guide

Coming soon


 

Want support with your situation?

 

If you’re dealing with something right now and you’re not sure where to begin, you don’t need to figure it out alone. Here are some organisations that can help.

Home : Cruse Scotland

Samaritans

Good Life, Good Death, Good Grief

Breathing Space

PETAL Support – Supporting People Experiencing Trauma and Loss

Pushing up the Daisies | Bringing Death Home


 

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